April Davila - Author
I was teaching at a lovely retreat last weekend when I overheard someone say something that has been bouncing around in my brain all week: Happiness is not found in pleasure. It's found in acceptance. Putting aside the fact that the man who said … [Continue reading] about Happiness In Not Found In Pleasure
The other day, in a workshop I was leading, we got into a discussion of holes vs. hunger. An astute writer in the group, one who is working on a memoir, used the story holes/hunger distinction to describe how she feels when a manuscript leaves her … [Continue reading] about Story Holes Vs. Hunger
I had lunch with a writer friend the other day and, as we do, we started talking about books. She asked what I'd been reading. I told her I had just finished The Ship of Magic and was half way through Fun Home, then added, jokingly, that then there … [Continue reading] about Books You Don’t Post on GoodReads
People sometimes ask how I manage to keep working when life gets in the way and they laugh when I tell them, truly: lower the bar. If you're caring for a sick loved one, or you're a new parent, or work is super busy right now, you might not have … [Continue reading] about Lower the Bar
I return to this poem by Jack Gilbert over and over. Today seems like a good day to share it. A Brief for the Defense Sorrow everywhere. Slaughter everywhere. If babiesare not starving someplace, they are starvingsomewhere else. With flies in … [Continue reading] about A Brief For The Defense
A few years ago, I started getting these postcards printed with my congressman's name and address on the back so I could easily send one out every day. I intentionally made them look like invitations, a little fancy, so that they might catch my … [Continue reading] about Not Okay
Confession: I’m not really that into sports. Of course you’d never know it if you saw how I spend my weekends. Today I will spend 4+ hours sitting on sidelines, watching my kids play sports (girl=soccer, boy=baseball) and while I love that my … [Continue reading] about The Best Time to Multitask